I WONDER

 Have you ever wondered while two people split all of a sudden? One of my good friends at work was going through a split with her best friend. I asked her what had happened, and she was so silly when she told me. He was jealous because he saw her kissing his friend. I ask if they were dating or something. She told me no, I asked several times, then she told me they ones tried dating, but didn’t work out for the both of them.  Yesterday was game night for me and my lady friends. 

 It was fun at first, till when Emma one of my co-workers at work started talking about how black men are cheap and all that. My friend Vanessa got offended and said we all aren’t perfect and that we all make mistakes. She gave an example of how her ex-boy friend was white and how he wasn’t what she expected. He wasn’t given in money and he didn’t like going out. One day, she found out that he was just a selfish person and she broke up with him.  Vanessa‘s friend Wendy shared her own experience with are boyfriend who is her boss at work.

Since I am officecnn, I decided to hear the juicy part of the gist. I was shocked when, she decided the guy to all of us, I knew who she meant, but it took a while for everyone to digest her story. I wasn’t surprise at the story, because the guy in question is a pig.  She told us how he wanted to ask her out after the rubbish things he told my boyfriend about her. I wonder why people bother themselves in the first place. Today, I read a poem by a friend’s ex; it was a touching one, which she gives me the go ahead to write the novel on the messages.  If you find out that your friend is dating a pig what would you do?

TOO LATE

     My good friend just experienced this just few hours ago; I don’t know what ladies of today are feeling like. You need to read my friend’s mail and my reply to her.

Vanessa writes: 26 October at 19:36 Report

    I was watching my friend tell her boyfriend of ten years how she cheated on him for six years. Such a sad story, are boyfriend was trying to purpose to her. I cried out my eyes for the very first time. I know this guy (travels a lot) but that shouldn't have being the reason. Scotty is the guy for her. I was shocked when she said no to him, both are parents where at the back of the house, when she refuses Scotty. I get the part, she was ready four years ago. I thought she was just waiting for the right moment. I can't believe she has being feeding me with lies about how much she loved him. Instead, she was telling me about the other guy. How is she sure that, mike even loved her.
    One time, she brought up a stupid idea. The idea was that imagine you have to pick from two handsome men, who you would pick. I told her that it depend on what kind of love they have to show. I asked her several times who she was referring too, she said a friend at work, I didn't believe that she was the one asking such questions, so I did what every friend would do, ignore that she ever asked me that. Now she is telling me, to remember what she asked me two years ago. Can you believe, the Mike didn't even ask her the question yet and she moved in with him? Telling me, Mike is her best friend. Don’t get me wrong am not angry at her. I am only upset that I had to be her dairy all this years.

My respond to Vanessa: 26 October at 19:41

Sorry Vanessa,
  you aren't her dairy okay. You are her friend and she lost that. She prefers pretenders than a friend okay. She lost someone good and loving today too. I pray God was trying to give Scotty a sign too. Just watch and see how God would deal with her. What do you think?

Blackberry

Yesterday, one of my friends’ told me how she got herself in trouble with her bb. She told how her and her course mates sent the wrong messages to their boss on bb. First, who adds their boss on bb? Anyways the massage that was sent was if the boss in question had the balls of telling the CEO he sucks’. Who says that or sends that to a friend. Gone are the days, where we tell people that on the phone, not has a message. My question now is what was Marie thinking? She even asked me, if she could call her boss to explain herself. I told her not to even call (I think she did). She later, called me at 9pm to tell me how the other inmates were trying to put the blame on her. Marie was shocked that her inmate would actually put the whole problem on her. I told Marie to calm down and not panic, but she should just explain herself and not to expose anybody (I pray she doesn’t).  What do you think Marie should have done?

            Yesterday night also Stephanie called to tell me how she deleted her boyfriend’s sister from her blackberry. I was shocked she added Mimi in the first place. You know how people want to know your business and you are trying to hide yourself from all there dramas. Stephanie boyfriend’s sister is just one person you want to watch out for. I am thinking is because, she just got one or she is desperate to have friends to chat with from time to time. At one point she added me on her bb. How I knew was when Jack, Stephanie boyfriend told me, that his sister added me to her chat room. What a lady right? Stephanie was so angry yesterday when she told me how Mimi picked her phone and was reading all her text messages (can you believe that). Stephanie was upset so she caused her out without living any details. She told Mimi that she was an f…k. Mimi saw all that coming I guess (Stephanie isn’t even yet married to your brother). What should I have told Stephanie to do?

            Leanne was tired of reading that entire messages sent to her by bunch of her bb friends from high school mates. Leanne just didn’t get the whole idea of it, so she deleted all her twenty-two friends from her high school .all of a sudden, Leanne didn’t tell Vanessa about those changes, so Vanessa now had to bb Leanne to ask her what went wrong. Leanne explained herself to Vanessa. Vanessa laughed and told Aisha that Leanne bb was stolen, that was why she couldn’t get in touch with Leanne. If Vanessa told Leanne to do that, would she have done the same?